How do I increase the size of my heart? I wanna be a lover and not a fighter.

Volunteer to help someone in need

When you start treating them how you like to be treated, and still see them for who they are.

When you love them in a way that teaches them to love themselves and then others too.

An enlarged heart is a ticking bomb.

You mean a Frenchman?

First you have to be able to fight. A lover who can fight and avoids it shows strength and wisdom. Someone who doesn't fight because they can't are just weak.

start by expressing gratitude, love and kindness daily, and appreciation for what you have, then move to tolerance of others who are different from you (we are all different--there are no two identical people!!)

Stop giving a shit