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Imma need the red flag guy for this one lol

A guy I've been on and off with since last summer is coming to see me this weekend 😍
But there's some red flags that I need to figure out while he's here.

First of all, he never texts, like ever! He only want to talk over the phone, and he has no social media🫣 He's older so maybe that's normal? I'm 26, he's 42. He told me that we can't be together 'cause I'm "too young" and he's still living with his baby mama 'cause she can't afford to move rn? He also said that we can be together when I turn 30 'cause it "looks better" with the age difference. I JUST turned 26 🤔 So we can act like a couple, just not officially be one🙃

I love him, so I wanna figure it out🫣💕
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Artymay · 26-30, FNew
I was kinda hoping that someone would tell me I'm being crazy, but😭😂
Kiesel · 56-60, M
@Artymay you’re not crazy as your logical side sees all the red flags.
But I personally think it won’t do you any good to maintain this arrangement that’s extremely one sided..
And it would serve you well to bail out now, seeing that you love him..
Cause the plot will thicken the longer you let this go on…
dirge · M
@Artymay i mean... you kinda are. a bit, but in the opposite direction as to what youd like to be told. sorry.
@Artymay You are being crazy foo. You never know what this guy will do once he knows where you live and can access you personally. Since he is obviously hiding his home situation you have to assume he is married and maybe his wife actually still loves him, this is why he is keeping it a secret. It would be evil for you to get in the middle of that.
On the other hand, a little sex is always nice, even if it is fake.

To compensate for the lack of texting evidence, you should start recording your phone calls.

To record a conversation on your cell phone, you can use a third-party app designed for call recording, as most smartphones do not have built-in recording features. Popular options include TapeACall and Quo, which offer high-quality audio and easy sharing options.