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Imma need the red flag guy for this one lol

A guy I've been on and off with since last summer is coming to see me this weekend 😍
But there's some red flags that I need to figure out while he's here.

First of all, he never texts, like ever! He only want to talk over the phone, and he has no social media🫣 He's older so maybe that's normal? I'm 26, he's 42. He told me that we can't be together 'cause I'm "too young" and he's still living with his baby mama 'cause she can't afford to move rn? He also said that we can be together when I turn 30 'cause it "looks better" with the age difference. I JUST turned 26 🤔 So we can act like a couple, just not officially be one🙃

I love him, so I wanna figure it out🫣💕
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dirge · M
I'm not sure anyone who's going to care will see any difference in the optics between 42/26 and 46/30. I'm not sure how much I believe he has 'no social media' @42. I know people in their 70s who are all over various social media things regularly. this all seems wildly suspicious. if you can't 'be together' till half a decade from now, how's he managing to come see you for a weekend? I'm pretty sure you already know what's going on, you just don't want to believe it and need some outside view that confirms it.
Artymay · 26-30, FNew
@dirge I sent him a fake text from a friend saying that we're gonna meet up this weekend, to show him I've moved on, so that's why he's coming this weekend to stop me from seeing someone else 🙃 It's suss af, you're right😫
dirge · M
@Artymay er. thats also wildly controlling. you might want to start thinking about involving leos.
@Artymay he doesn’t text but you sent him a fake text. Sounds like you are made for each other.
dirge · M
@Sojournersoul yeah, there are redflags at full mast all over both sides here, tbt.
Artymay · 26-30, FNew
@Sojournersoul I text him at times, he just doesn't answer with text.