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Imma need the red flag guy for this one lol

A guy I've been on and off with since last summer is coming to see me this weekend 😍
But there's some red flags that I need to figure out while he's here.

First of all, he never texts, like ever! He only want to talk over the phone, and he has no social media🫣 He's older so maybe that's normal? I'm 26, he's 42. He told me that we can't be together 'cause I'm "too young" and he's still living with his baby mama 'cause she can't afford to move rn? He also said that we can be together when I turn 30 'cause it "looks better" with the age difference. I JUST turned 26 🤔 So we can act like a couple, just not officially be one🙃

I love him, so I wanna figure it out🫣💕
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Kiesel · 56-60, M
Uh…
Are you good with those terms and conditions?
Seems pretty clear cut to me..
Artymay · 26-30, FNew
@Kiesel At first I just wanted to have fun so I didn't mind that he didn't want a relationship, but he also don't want me being with anyone else and it's startin' to look shady 🙃
Kiesel · 56-60, M
@Artymay the terms and conditions seems EXTREMELY unbalanced imo.
And who’s to say that when you turn 30, the relationship with his baby momma hasn’t changed in any way? Among other things for that matter.
He wants only phone calls, I’m guessing, so there’s no evidence of texting… again, guessing here
Artymay · 26-30, FNew
@Kiesel I asked him about it and he said he just hates textin' and would rather call, so I figured maybe it's just cause he's "old" lol 🙃
Kiesel · 56-60, M
@Artymay I’m old and I love texting. Lol
I agree with Rambler…
But I don’t think he’s gonna be completely honest and forthcoming with you…
I just don’t
He’s coming to get what he wants and then you have to agree to his terms and conditions