so all this remarried christians know there in a state of adultery. I sure they always knew, I mean why do people have weddings if marriage means

But, if she says "We're going to have an argument, pick a topic", then says that she doesn't love you and wants a divorce, then moves in with her male coworker, then a couple months later wants to come back, then says she needs to find herself and moves to california instead and has a fling out there...get the divorce, get the divorce, get the divorce!!