I just confessed to my boyfriend that I cheated on him and I told him I didn't mean to I was drunk. He said he still love me, this is how you know

I suspected that my wife cheated a lot when we were dating in college, but she didn't confess until after we married. It was fine then, and I had no problem forgiving her. It did not impact our love for each other. I'm not sure what would have happened if she had confessed while it was going on.