"WHEN LIES FEEL LIKE LOVE" Five years ago, I discovered my husband’s secret life online—hidden...

WillaKissing · 56-60, M

It is a terrible thing to do. If I was married or had a girlfriend, I doubt I would even be here any longer. One relationship and wooing one person is hard enough, I would not have the patience or time to make fake profiles and such.

Sorry for you and God bless your situation.

SamHarris · 31-35, M

My oldest brother is like that. Especially since he’s addicted to drugs and all other sorts of criminality and has been for these 30 years and still is even at 43. It’s no wonder his ex-wife divorced him just two years ago. I am happy she did and that she considers me family more than he’ll ever be to her, let alone a spouse.

awildsheepschase

Well written. There's too much loneliness in this world now. People when they are feeling low and in despair (even if they are blind to their own emotions) place hope to escape their hurt.

Bowenw · 61-69, M

I agree we all crave attention and connections, but shouldn’t lie or deceive others to get them.

Tumbleweed · F

It's so very hard to come to terms and make peace with certain situations... good job, love!!!

1490wayb · 56-60, M

sadly we ignore those around us we should be able to trust and depend on. maybe they have betrayed\abused us or worse and instead reach out to strangers here.

RICHARD1313 · 51-55, M

Very true, the anonymity ov knline can be appealing as well

JackHoff · 46-50, M

We all crave attention and you have to get in somewhere, if not at home.

Underconstruction · F

How sad

jackrabbit10 · M

if you undressed for him ,he may not have been looking for it on the net,

Beautywithin · 36-40, F

Or maybe some people are never happy with what they have got and selfishly want more.

eMortal · M

People get bored. Online offers an opportunity to reinvent yourself

pdockal · 56-60, M

Now what for you ?

JamesBugman

If you ever played an online game you would notice this is the same thing. Some games are so real you can hardly tell the difference between the graphics and real people.
The main difference is that with chat, there is no script to follow, no repeatable scenarios, everything is in real-time, so if seeing naked people is your goal, then you find ways to get it.
Same as in a game.
At least there is no killing involved, most games are all about killing.

QCDog2659 · 61-69, M

This is, very often, the human condition.

RisingMorningStar7 · 36-40, M

I hope the system crashes. I don't understand man who have wives and cheat. Not only that lie about themselves.

romell · 51-55, M

Did you confront him with your discovery..