Is it your fault when someone falls in love with you?

I think what I'm really asking is this:

Is it our job to dull our shine, so other people don't catch feelings? Or should we just shine, and navigate those situations as they arise.

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YoMomma · 41-45

It's not your fault if you are just being yourself and minding your own business.. it's only one's fault if they are intentionally leading someone on for some reason.. but i don't think that's the type of case you are talking about?