Is it your fault when someone falls in love with you?

I think what I'm really asking is this:

Is it our job to dull our shine, so other people don't catch feelings? Or should we just shine, and navigate those situations as they arise.

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Carazaa · F

Since men fall very fast, and can fall inlove with just a smile, we should not flirt and lead them on if we don't want a serious relationship.
And men should not lie and seduce women if they do not want to commit.

calicuz · 56-60, M

@Carazaa

Yes, sound advice.