Shine!! I don't think we can "make" anyone fall in love with us. Are we always supposed to be on guard and think that we "caused" someone to fall in love with us? I don't think so. But I do say this. Neither party should play games with each other's feelings... each should be genuine. But of course that falls into another category and that's not always the truth. People are not always genuine and that's where the problem comes in. Some never present their true selves. However, speaking in general, we weren't made to be people pleasers. If somebody falls in love with us I don't think it's because we forced them. They should take responsibility for their own feelings and actions. People could always use that as an excuse to support their own obsession, or blackmail somebody, but we can't force anyone to love us.
