Is it your fault when someone falls in love with you?

I think what I'm really asking is this:

Is it our job to dull our shine, so other people don't catch feelings? Or should we just shine, and navigate those situations as they arise.

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bijouxbroussard · F

No. It’s our job to live our lives and be who we are, as long as we’re not trying to harm anyone. Some people may be put off, others may be attracted. I think the only obligation is to not lead anyone on—if there’s no chance of reciprocal feelings, that should be made plain.