Are there are more interracial dating couples in US cities compared to other US cities?

I am a black guy I am in my early 30’s. I have been really unsuccessful finding a girl that is a different race or ethnicity than me. I don’t discriminate I am open to dating whatever race. I wanted to ask for example if you had to compare Pittsburgh vs the DMV region which would be more accepting of interracial dating? Also which US cities stand out more than others when it comes to interracial dating like whose least accepting to more accepting? New York City? Chicago? Los Angeles? Houston? Miami? Yes DMV like I said DC Maryland, and Northern VA. White women/black men? Black women/white men? Asian men/Black Women? Black Men/Asian Women? Black Men/Latina Women?

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Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

I met my boyfriend in Kentucky at the gym we both go to. He's a black guy. I'm white. He's also older than me by a good bit.

TheBlackSamurai6421 · 36-40, M

@Mandyheart98 oh ok it’s just hard to tell though like who is accepting and who is not accepting of another race. Talking about when you date outside. I am curious about the south because I would think a lot of people are definitely against dating someone outside their race. Especially in the deep southern states like Mississippi, Alabama, Louisana, Arkansas, etc. Where you are in Kentucky is it highly unusual to see black guys dating white girls or black guys or white guys dating Asian or Latino or Indian etc? I never been to Kentucky so I wouldn’t know. Plus Kentucky is not considered the Deep South.

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@TheBlackSamurai6421 there are definitely racist people down south but on the larger cities you see less of it. Interracial couples are definitely accepted more there.

TheBlackSamurai6421 · 36-40, M

@Mandyheart98 I always felt afraid to date someone of a different race yes because I know I’m going to get nasty looks. To me I think you still have to be careful. A lot of people think it’s totally fine to go in any part of the United States and date whoever you want without being judged. People assume that it’s 2025 and racism is over.

Mandyheart98 · 26-30, F

@TheBlackSamurai6421 racism is definitely not over, in fact lately it's been worse than it has in a while. You can't live your life in fear especially when love is involved. There are definitely places that are far more accepting

TheBlackSamurai6421 · 36-40, M

@Mandyheart98 thanks for telling me that.