Do you think it makes me shallow if I care more about the opinions of men I find physically attractive?

One time a person on Girlsaskguys without a profile picture showing their face called me “ugly” and “shrek” after seeing a picture of me.
I felted interested in seeing a picture of the person who wrote this insulting comment to me afterwards. I just thought in my head it would probably make me feel better if I saw a picture of him and found out he didn’t have a face I found attractive.

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being · 36-40, F

Well an attractive face is one thing, and then a healed, mature and warm psyche is another, but very often these two coincide and I think you can be right!
Because you didn't say anything about a handsome or good looking man, but you referred about what you find attractive.

A person having done his work do look attractive. :) here's my opinion!

BiasForAction · M

I think it’s a human reaction

ViciDraco · 36-40, M

I do think it is shallow. We should definitely be basing our judgements of other's opinions based on how well thought out our factually supported it is.

That said, opinions on someone's attractiveness are subjective and it's fairly normal to want to be considered desirable by people you desire and not care so much about whether people you don't desire want you.

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