Why is it so hard to find a relationship
I swear I haven't been able to find anyone recently and when I do it's chatting for one day then unmatched it just gets really lonely at times
22-25, M
This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »
hartfire · 61-69
Chatting is essential - and can be enjoyable.
In the next few, ask for feedback when it's petering out or ending. Ask her to be direct and honest because you want to learn whether you're making mistakes in the way you communicate. See if there are any common themes in their responses. If so, consider how you could improve your skills in conversation and getting to know each other.
Consider creating a list of questions - what you want to know about them, and what you'd like them to ask you.
Consider whether you are honest and open, whether you boast or undersell yourself, and whether the way you feel about yourself is realistic.
Maybe think about being more selective. It helps save time.
Create lists of what you do and don't want in a partner and what traits don't matter. Maybe post this in your Äbout Me" on your profile. This makes it easier for her to see who you are.
In the next few, ask for feedback when it's petering out or ending. Ask her to be direct and honest because you want to learn whether you're making mistakes in the way you communicate. See if there are any common themes in their responses. If so, consider how you could improve your skills in conversation and getting to know each other.
Consider creating a list of questions - what you want to know about them, and what you'd like them to ask you.
Consider whether you are honest and open, whether you boast or undersell yourself, and whether the way you feel about yourself is realistic.
Maybe think about being more selective. It helps save time.
Create lists of what you do and don't want in a partner and what traits don't matter. Maybe post this in your Äbout Me" on your profile. This makes it easier for her to see who you are.