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Why is it so hard to find a relationship

I swear I haven't been able to find anyone recently and when I do it's chatting for one day then unmatched it just gets really lonely at times
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powernap · 56-60, M
I read a quote long ago by Lao Tzu, and he said "when you seek it, you cannot find it." I think what he was saying was just go through your life, the right person will come around, eventually.
in10RjFox · M
@powernap not really. What he means is that just because you seek something, does not mean you will get it immediately. Which means you have to be on the lookout and work towards it. It also means don't waste time by looking for it at once. Prepare your mind for to accept/ receive it when it appears for often things appear like a lightning. Even if you miss a few, you will catch the next one.

Often we are presented with things that we never sought. And we may let go the right person since we were not looking for such a thing. 😀
powernap · 56-60, M
@in10RjFox with regards concerning the first paragraph in your response to my post, you basically restated what I said.
hartfire · 61-69
@powernap In the days of Lao Tsu marriages were arranged: no one thought of giving youngsters the choice, so acceptance of the status quo was the only way to adapt.