Real love not here no more

Yeap. People are happy to have you around while you are fulfilling their needs, supporting them, looking out for them and when they feel stronger....they no longer need you.....you make them feel needy.....so....off they pop and when you challenge why....they will usually tell you you became to needy of them!!

It has happened multiple times indeed, but those friendships were still meaningful while they lasted, and I'd do it all over again for the next one.

I see that a lot with women too honestly there are a few of us left out here though I am one of them I believe if someone is not willing to struggle with you they do not deserve you when you are at your best. There's an old saying they ran away when the house fell but what they did not realize was it did not fall I simply tore it down to build a mansion. I was only interested in seeing who else was willing to grab a hammer and help me build

People are meant to balance each other, but longevity isn’t guaranteed. Love is always out there, but you’re part of the problem if you’re not chasing it. We’re put here to live.

If your partner quits on you, someone else won’t. Don’t let one life kill the passion of two.
Fight for yourself.

True. So be like the other. Be a vagabond lover without sticking too much to one atleast during the initial stages of life.

Sticking to one is marriage before wedding that causes a lot of hardship.

I found that taking the last couple years to work on self love has helped my self esteem. Life still lonely but at least I don't hate myself.

Indeed. Many just use you to fill their voids, until it requires more or loses it's idealistic appeal. Especially on-line!

Perhaps they were secretly acquainted with this other person?

You win some, you lose some. It’s a part of life.

Expectations

@Be4realbeyou 😞what a cruel and ungrateful person does such a terrible thing like that i say good riddance better off without him in your world