What would you do
If your 1st love comes back and says he wants to marry you and is all lovey dovey and promises he will talk to his parents on weekends and then next day he seems too cold what would you do then
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Spoiledbrat · F
@Deadgirl Either could be true. It could be a misunderstanding.
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Spoiledbrat thats a possibility he said within 10 days things will be decided
Spoiledbrat · F
@Deadgirl I feel like that's insincere. He should know.
AlchemyFox · 36-40, F
Reflection2 · 41-45, M
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@Reflection2 i felt the same what should I do
xbandoleerx · 56-60, M
@Deadgirl pay him back in the same coins
thinkingoutloud · F
Never trust inconsistent behaviour.
There is always a reason; find out what it is.
Ask him.
And if the reason he gives doesn't make sound psychological sense,
say so and disconnect.
Don't hang on out of romantic or nostalgic wishes or it will only end in deep pain for you.
There is always a reason; find out what it is.
Ask him.
And if the reason he gives doesn't make sound psychological sense,
say so and disconnect.
Don't hang on out of romantic or nostalgic wishes or it will only end in deep pain for you.
Blondily · F
He had to ask his parents for permission to marry you??? Wtf???
If a man treated me like that I wouldn't talk to him ever again. He sounds like a childish selfish insecure needy self centered jerk. Be rid of him. Geez!!!
If a man treated me like that I wouldn't talk to him ever again. He sounds like a childish selfish insecure needy self centered jerk. Be rid of him. Geez!!!
Mudkip · 31-35, M
Wtf he sounds goofy as hell. He can't be around your age acting like that lol
avidrunner2 · M
Talk to his parents on weekends about what?
avidrunner2 · M
@Deadgirl Ah. Well if he spoke with his parents and then he is cold it's probably because they didn't jump up and down with joy and didn't give their support or he didn't speak with his parents because he is afraid of them and he is cold because he doesn't want to admit it. Neither scenario seems good to me.
Deadgirl · 26-30, F
@avidrunner2 me too should I confront him or not?
avidrunner2 · M
@Deadgirl If you are considering marrying this person then yes. It's a big red flag in my opinion. Plus if you want to marry someone you need to be able to discuss any issues.
xbandoleerx · 56-60, M
Love is a candy..half sweet, usually the initial half & remaining is sour, bitter and / or tasteless. And it is never different.
Greyjedi · M
I’d say get the hell away me you weird gay creep, I don’t know you and never been in love with you.
Spoiledbrat · F
It sounds like he's insincere or confused but I don't know. Maybe you misread him.
Help him fix his motorcycle.
Not knowing why it won't start is obviously bothering him......
Not knowing why it won't start is obviously bothering him......
updown2020 · 61-69, M
Well what does his parents
have to do with anything?
have to do with anything?
novaguy2u · 70-79, M
He sounds like a control freak, trying to keep you off-balance.
Applepiedom · 56-60, M
If you weren't good enough once why let him back?
darkknightt · M
Told you he is playing with you
soulshadow · 36-40, M
Try a different perfume
Prettybratbi1tch · 26-30, F
Ignore him
Elessar · 26-30, M
This:
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Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
Probably wants some love and attention
C11111111111111 · M
Lilnonames · F
I would take him back no matter what he say, he had his chance and blew it
Show them the door