Help meeee
My bf wants “privacy” after I caught him commenting on other girls posts calling them pretty and sexy and beautiful. And now doesn’t want me going on his phone or like looking at it. Should I be worried?
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PurpleHazeWA · 46-50, M
Yes and No
Yes because his behavior and reaction to being called in it suggests he’s still engaging in similar behavior with no plans to change - otherwise he’d be more inclined to doing whatever he felt was necessary to earn your trust back if that was important to him.
No because … fuck him … might sound harsh but you’re young and while I’m not trying to diminish your feelings for him and how hard it might feel at this time to go through this the facts are more on the side of he’s just one guy that you’ll be involved with in your life … some might treat you better and some sadly might even treat you worse but try not to let it get you too down and try to believe that happiness is out there for you but it’s not always easy to find (worth the fight though).
Yes because his behavior and reaction to being called in it suggests he’s still engaging in similar behavior with no plans to change - otherwise he’d be more inclined to doing whatever he felt was necessary to earn your trust back if that was important to him.
No because … fuck him … might sound harsh but you’re young and while I’m not trying to diminish your feelings for him and how hard it might feel at this time to go through this the facts are more on the side of he’s just one guy that you’ll be involved with in your life … some might treat you better and some sadly might even treat you worse but try not to let it get you too down and try to believe that happiness is out there for you but it’s not always easy to find (worth the fight though).
DerSilberneKonig1 · 22-25, M
@PurpleHazeWA Exactly this ^