How do you know someone still loves his/her ex?

I feel like my entire relationship is a lie.
It hurts a lot.
My BF still contacts his ex knowing it hurts me.

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He better have a damn good excuse for something like that. If it isn't for something necessary, like she's the mother of his kids sort of thing, he shouldn't be your bf

IntelligentGirl2 · 26-30, F

@ImperialAerosolKidFromEP No she isnt the mother of his kid. Only his ex who had lot of troubles with addiction. I understand he cares but when it's been one year that He knows it hurts me and he contacts her again. He told me that he was drunk. I learned that they were in touch when i was next to him and saw the notification. He is playing.

ImperialAerosolKidFromEP · 51-55, M

@IntelligentGirl2 I've been there. It only finally came to a conclusion when I started looking to get a restraining order.
If you even think it's worth having another talk w/him about this, then do that, then get yourself ready to walk away. (Or get a restraining order as need be 😁)