Get a dog. They are the epitome of unconditional love. When it comes to human on human relationships, it's been my experience that the most successful ones have been where one of the two is noticeably more into the other one. I think the ones you see in the chewing gum commercials and the rom coms don't really exist, if they do, i think they're short lived as one of the two either encounters someone they're more into but previously didn't think they had a chance or they get swept away by someone who worships them and they get addicted to that kind of attention..
I've got experience in many different combinations of the few possibilities I've mentioned. The worst was when she was more into me then got swept away by some old creep who worshipped her.
They say its better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. I say it's debatable. I also admit that I've never had a dream about any woman ive ever know. I dream about my dogs all the time.