May be its not yet ur time to get the right soulmate

Its more a time to adore self and be U

"All that is gold does not glitter, Not all those who wander are lost . ."

Those who are not in a relationship are not alone, and those who are do not have to be in excellent company.

Here's some advise on how to discover your soulmate.
They don't exist.

Find someone whose positive attributes thrill and enrich you, and whose negative characteristics you can tolerate and mitigate over time. That is your perfect match.

Here's a trick for filtering out such people: see if he's a good human being. That's a good starting point.

Nothing to be embarrassed about, we just have to realise that unconditional love doesn’t exist, and have to realise that you have to put as much effort as the other person does 🤷🏻‍♂️

I’m single and lonely and I haven’t lost hope yet, so don’t lose hope :)

Get a dog. They are the epitome of unconditional love. When it comes to human on human relationships, it's been my experience that the most successful ones have been where one of the two is noticeably more into the other one. I think the ones you see in the chewing gum commercials and the rom coms don't really exist, if they do, i think they're short lived as one of the two either encounters someone they're more into but previously didn't think they had a chance or they get swept away by someone who worships them and they get addicted to that kind of attention..

I've got experience in many different combinations of the few possibilities I've mentioned. The worst was when she was more into me then got swept away by some old creep who worshipped her.

They say its better to have loved and lost then to never have loved at all. I say it's debatable. I also admit that I've never had a dream about any woman ive ever know. I dream about my dogs all the time.

Things are looking grim by seeing your age because the longer we get into a pattern of behaviors and beliefs, of fears and doubts.. it gets harder and harder to break out. You've dug yourself into a way of thinking and behaviing that is like a self fulfilling destiny. I got my own issues so dont think im judging you.

Well sometimes i wonder the same thing. You can be in love but that doesnt always mean that they are gonna treat you right.

I rather not be in love than go thru the heartache of being in a rotten relationship.

I didn't fall in love until I was 33, and I fucked it up less than a year later. Now I have to live with the fact they're calling someone else "the love of my life" like they called me. For me, they're still exactly that tho.

And yet, despite fucking it up and regretting breaking up with them, I'm glad I had the experience.

Might just be the universe hasn’t found a way to get the right person to you. But on the other hand you can take time to just enjoy being you and doing things that enrich yourself without worrying about anyone else. I wish I told myself that years ago and took that time before parenthood.

It's strange that you feel embarrassed for it. Why? Do you feel pressure from other people that you[i] should [/i]be in a relationship?

I went through my entire 20s without being with anyone. I just didn't meet anyone who would make me feel the right way to start something with.

I'm sure you will find someone special. You have been busy working on you and achieving your goals for yourself. That love that you desire will come. Just be patient and be open to accepting it once it comes.

Knowing there's someone who loves me unconditionally always makes me feel uneasy. The one exception is my little dog.

Don’t worry if it’s gonna happen or not. Just be yourself and don’t change for anyone.

no reason to rush a good thing

you are really attractive, see you are driven by nursing school. I feel like if you hadn't been in a serous relationship yet it was by your choice. What keeps you from committing? Also there is no such thing as "unconditional love there are always conditions What do you want in a fella?

From reading other posts you’ve written, you seem like a really cool person, you look really nice in your pfp as well so I’m sure that you’ll find someone really nice.

Me too

Can you give too? Can you say you do all the things you ask in the OP for others? This might be your problem.

You will never receive that which you are not willing to give of yourself. 😉

[quote] I wonder if I'll ever find that special person.[/quote]

Check your just friends zone. That is where they usually are.

Wow! That’s really sad. Why do you think that’s happened to you?

Being in love is the best thing there is

Same.

Better to be alone than with someone you dislike. Be your best self and you'll be fine either way.