I truly believe that everyone has a "type"; and I am no exception. And although I am married to a woman that is definitely my "type", I still covertly look when I see one.

Because my "type" is rather rare in the area I live in, I don't run across them often. But I did see one the other day in a big box store. I confess that I lingered in the light bulb section and observed from a distance. Hey I'm a guy....We are visual creatures.

LOL

I see attractive people all the time,, but know better than to act on those feelings
the ones that affect me the most are what I call
"lovable faces. " not about attractive,, but so much about. Oh I could love a face like that.. not because of traditional beauty, but something ineffable, an emotional availability? a soul close to the surface?
and those faces that show the need for love, and the lack of it

Every time i come on here

I work on a university campus. A significant percentage of these kids are gorgeous.

Are we including you in the answer?

For me attractiveness has never been the only reason to date someone…

I’m happily married , no one fills his shoes .

My husband won't allow that

Some of my fave bars have attractive people bartending. Sometimes, the only reason I go to them certain days is because I know they're working.

I don't understand why I would seek for a date when I have my boyfriend?

Almost never. But to be fair, my mind isn’t attuned to that, not right now. If it were, I might see more such people. 😕

I see many