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Would you consider a man "weak" if he forgave his girlfriend/wife for sleeping with another guy?

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OKWTF2 · 51-55, M
Not weak at all, life sucks without a forgiving heart. Just no way to live. Forgiving does not change the betrayal and uncertainty of the relationship between the two. Relationship are hard and always changing and to last a long time require work and not just love. A lot of people do not know or ever learn that.
The intent of the question seems to be if they can forgive and stay together, just not sure. Forgiveness of the act and betrayal is not alone, the lost of trust will be a challenge to rebuild more and much harder to accomplish.