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Ontheroad · M
I believe we are our own worst enemies in this regard. In short (sort of short) I believe we too often set about with the intent that this "true love" has to come to us just as we see it. That this person who will truly love us is this, that and the other, and that they will give us all that we need to be truly happy, truly felt loved in our defined "true love' scenario and in a way we recognize. And, there we are, out looking and we find him/her without knowing what it is they seek, other than in some superficial way. Two people seeking true love from another who seeks their true love, neither even wondering, not really, what it is they can day in and day out give to meet the others expectations of true love - to somehow magically and without effort be giving them what they need. It's akin to the blind leading the blind.