Why is it so hard to find true love?

@CookieCrumbs for me love is all about accepting each other with flaws and imperfections, I’m not looking for perfection because I feel perfection is about the ego.I’m looking for intelligence, kindness, sense of humor and reliability. Sometimes no matter what we think we’re looking for in a partner, the people we wind up choosing doesn’t necessarily match our criteria for an ideal companion.

@Chapmanblake
Why do you think that happens? Do you believe we settle?

@CookieCrumbs In my experience people settle because a part of them believe that is all they deserve or because they are desperate, are afraid of being alone or don’t think they would find anyone better. Often times a sense of unworthiness is deeply hidden in one’s subconscious, but it shows up in the choices we make. The ability not to settle is a matter of self esteem, preseverance and confidence.