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🖤 Part-time Love: Is that all you share?


When you’re not able to give what they need, you know it’s time to go.

When you know they’re not able to give what your soul needs, you know it’s time to let them go.
Magenta · F
Mine = Full time, down deep.

But that hot and cold, inflation and deflation of the heart is utterly exhausting. My heart isn't a yo-yo.😑
@Magenta
Inflation- deflation. 😑
Exhausting.

And it consumes more of your heart’s energy than it should.
One should know when to quit this situation.
Magenta · F
@CookieCrumbs🤗 Indeed.
But talking your heart into it, is like a war between the head and heart.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
It’s painful, but you have to do what’s best for the health of your heart, mind, and soul. Sometimes you can find friendship again down the road, but even if you do, the love is still there. The heart wants what it wants even when it’s in opposition to what the mind and body need.
@ChampagneOnIce Well said.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@Stillwaiting Thank you. :) Every situation is different, though. Obviously, I can only speak from my experience. ;)
Spumoni · 46-50, M
@Spumoni
Hugs.
RoxClymer · 41-45, M
@Spumoni
same, man, same
just makes me think of my last relationship
SW-User
Yeah basically you can't be yourself and it's exhausting.
SW-User
@CookieCrumbs but walking away it's just the first step... It requires a whole process of acceptance... And mourning if they were important to you
@SW-User
Yes, of course. Walking away not to try to escape the situation, or discard whatever is there.

It’s more like getting to the point of acceptance that there is nothing more you or the other person can do about the situation.
SW-User
@CookieCrumbs and most of the times you have to endure it yourself.... On your own. Well at least there's always hope of healing
Punxi · 26-30, F
That emotional time clock. Oftentimes my head runs late but its my heart that punches in early each day.
@Punxi
Why can’t the heart learn to sleep in ? ⏰
SensualRomantic · 46-50, M
When I read "part time love", it automatically makes me think the word "lover". I always think lover as feelings attached but you have each other for mostly sex.

And sometimes, relationships start with full love but then turns to this for sometime until you feel even sex is not going to make it continue.
True. Sad, but true.
theworldofGia · 31-35, F
I just left my long time boyfriend and this hits so hard, my chest aches.
JoyfulSilence · 46-50, M
I cannot finish my lunch.

Time to go.

But I will be taking all this uneaten love home.
SW-User
Sounds like another way to dump a relationship.
It seems like too many people are okay with throw away relationships.
SW-User
@Stillwaiting
When you’re not able to give what they need, you know it’s time to go.

When you know they’re not able to give what your soul needs, you know it’s time to let them go.

This is what I replied to.

What you are asking isn't the same
@SW-User
It’s not all about throwing away relationships.

How one reads a short post is influenced by one’s own experiences. How you read this post will differ from how it was written or how others will relate to it.

Just like what @Stillwaiting said, it’s knowing when stop when you’re the only one making the effort, or when you’ve exhausted every effort, but things are not going to fix itself.
SW-User
@CookieCrumbs I see it differently. Too often people quit trying when times aren't as fun and the ride is bumpy.
Again... the quote part is giving me the impression about two....not one.
candycane · 31-35, F
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@candycane
🎶 Perfect!

I haven’t heard this song in decades!!
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@RogueLoner
And that’s a fair expectation from you.

You just have to find the person willing to give you the same. Some say that’s what they want, but they act contrary to their claim.

They only offer part time of themselves.

 
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