I need to tell him something. Or do I?

I need to tell him that this thing between us, whatever it is, isn’t a good idea. He should be out there with girls his own age doing the things that they do. I need to tell him that being with me won’t get him anywhere. But why do I desperately want to go on a bike ride with him? Why can’t I just have fun and not worry about the future? Why can’t I just enjoy the attention of a young guy while it lasts? This is probably just a little flirtation for him, it doesn’t really mean anything. I’m sure I’m making a big deal out of nothing, like I always do.

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littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

This is the only thing that makes me worry Why women think like that after they grow older than 35?

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@littlepuppywantanewlife It has more to do with me being older and he being younger. A feeling that I have lived half my life whereas he is just beginning to live his life.

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@SW-User I have loved older woman. If they thought the same thing and left me or kicked me out their life then it's a shame.

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@littlepuppywantanewlife I wish you will find love with an older woman soon. Good luck 👍

littlepuppywantanewlife · 31-35, M

@SW-User Thanks for saying this. Isn't cope up with the fact that someone left me after knowing them for 7 years. She never said a word she ghosted me and then blocked. It was hurtful that i can't even think about going out or talking with someone else. I can't think properly.