I need to tell him something. Or do I?

I need to tell him that this thing between us, whatever it is, isn’t a good idea. He should be out there with girls his own age doing the things that they do. I need to tell him that being with me won’t get him anywhere. But why do I desperately want to go on a bike ride with him? Why can’t I just have fun and not worry about the future? Why can’t I just enjoy the attention of a young guy while it lasts? This is probably just a little flirtation for him, it doesn’t really mean anything. I’m sure I’m making a big deal out of nothing, like I always do.

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SW-User

It's ran it's course, or you just like his attention? Only you know this. I read a story about a god grandmother having sex with her great godson. The therapist ignored the relationships a little, and said the young man loves the thrill, can't help himself, and the older woman loved the attention and lust she wasn't feeling anymore in life. Now she did caution, like in the column, to the one who wrote about this, it may not end well and they are both playing with fire?

SW-User

@SW-User Thank you.
I was breaking my head over it the whole night. Now I have determined to simply enjoy the gorgeous sunshine and the exercise and not worry about anything else, at least for now.We both dined together yesterday. We talked about everything from our families to our hobbies, dreams, tastes in books and music. l admire his sincerity and sense of purpose, especially at his young age. I could feel a strong connection with him.