Why’s it so difficult to find love?
It really should not be, but somehow it ends up being so.
You can find plenty of people willing and ready to touch your body and kiss your skin, but is what loving you means?
If you're looking for someone with a high EQ, then it's about a lot more than that. Those with a high EQ also know that two people who are exactly alike, will end up boring each other to death.
Finding real love, is about realizing that we're human with our unique warts, but we can love deeply, if we agree on a basic set of values (whatever that means), and everything else falls into the "small things" bucket, and the latter is something you can flash down with no regrets.
One last note: you may be looking for love in the wrong places, or environment.