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Why’s it so difficult to find love?

I try not to want it, because that hurts. But also not wanting it hurts. Then when I find someone interested, they have some unhealthy bag of bullshit, and that hurts. Yet I lay here alone wishing someone was loving me, touching my body and kissing my skin, and that hurts too.

Being human hurts 😆
Loretta78 · 46-50, F
I hear you.

There was never love in my life too, and probably never will.

I guess, that's destiny: Some people are predestined to give love to others and also to receive love back, to be surrounded from a nice, loving, understanding partner, from a dear family, whoever... and others - like me - are predestined to stay alone forever. 😞

I don't know you, I just hope that you don't belong to this last group and that soon you will find a true, honest love. ♥️
Northwest · M
Why’s it so difficult to find love?

It really should not be, but somehow it ends up being so.

You can find plenty of people willing and ready to touch your body and kiss your skin, but is what loving you means?

If you're looking for someone with a high EQ, then it's about a lot more than that. Those with a high EQ also know that two people who are exactly alike, will end up boring each other to death.

Finding real love, is about realizing that we're human with our unique warts, but we can love deeply, if we agree on a basic set of values (whatever that means), and everything else falls into the "small things" bucket, and the latter is something you can flash down with no regrets.

One last note: you may be looking for love in the wrong places, or environment.
Jonjdw · 51-55, M
I guess I got lucky I got a good woman we was 22 and 23 when we got married. But then if she was thin she would of not been single when I met her. Cus guys are like that. But I’m not. It’s the person not anything else. For the most part.
Beautywithin · 36-40, F
As humans Love is what we seek some find it easier than others, Love can make you feel good but can make you hurt too. Believe it will happen for you normally when you least expect it.
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
My typical response is try not to rush it, be patient and it will find you when you least expect it. I know that sounds like some thinking of you card bullshit though
WandererTony · 56-60, M
I have been though it and i think I understand the feeling.
Just remember that the neighbors lawn is not necessarily greener.
GuyWithOpinions · 31-35, M
Yep. I agree. I try to accept what i have and make due with it but i cant help but want more.
I’m sorry. I have much kindness in my heart for you. Be well. 🖤
JohnnyNoir · 56-60, M
*heavy sigh*
SW-User
Barefooter25 · 46-50, M
Believe me, we have all been there. For me it was just recently. We all think that this is the right person for us and before we know it, tons of curve balls hit you and it's over before you know it.
Coz there are just 24 hours and one need to do so much of nothings like time to 😴.
SolGryn · 31-35, M
Maybe its because you only want it to be easy. You dont want to deal with anyones problems but your own
Montanaman · M
Human touch is not only wanted. Needed to survive. ❤️🤗❤️
empanadas · 31-35, M
Hookup culture
RebelFox · 36-40, F
@empanadas Thing is I could get down, but even hooking up isn’t fun when there’s no connection at all.
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