Do you find love to be transactional?

I think it is for most people, they just do not see it, nor do they want to admit it.

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I do think it’s transactional, but not utilitarian. All connections are transactional and in a healthy connection it’s generally balanced. The author Stephen Covey came up with the metaphor that we each gave an emotional do bank account.

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