May - September Love should be lived without ' compromise '
People believe lots of things , and there are many speculations . When it comes to couples involved in age gap relationships.
Fact s are unlike relationships where there is no significant age , it can take an individual within the relationship a while to process , several aspects that most average couple don't have to consider in the quite the same way .
For example , what will my family & friends really think? Will we have to deal with unwelcome attitude s from people within our circle? as well as random strangers outside?
Alongside these thoughts are concerns on how serious in the longer term will ithe other partner about the relationship as in ..have they really thought this through ?
But then when all these questions - are up there milling about in above their heads.
There is only answer -
The answer begins and ends with the couple in question.
It's centres around 'A leap of faith'
There's is absolutely no question about this.
Neither can the descion to trust in the love for each other - be side stepped or gotten around
Because its the couple which arrives at the conclusion, that living without each other in their day to day lives - is no longer an option.
Who step out of only existing within a grey- non vibable life .
instead choosing to be together, in the light of happiness & peace.
To even consider living any other way is an hypocrisy - love & hypocrisy are incompatible words .
If one or both of the couple feel for real or imaginary reasons , mostly concerning other peoples views or reactions -
That they can't ( yet) live in the light of their love for each other.
Then they need to acknowledge the gift they have experienced and keep moving. Love is something, while desired may not ..yet be an experience they are truly capable of appreciating.
And while in this instance I am speaking of relationship s where there is a significant age gap. This could also apply to other realationship configurations
True love once found exists to be shared & experienced 鉂わ笍 馃挄鉂わ笍
Anything less is an affront to love it's self & simply won't do .
History proves many couples who truly love each ..just go for , they take that leap of faith .
And get on with living happy lives .
Fact s are unlike relationships where there is no significant age , it can take an individual within the relationship a while to process , several aspects that most average couple don't have to consider in the quite the same way .
For example , what will my family & friends really think? Will we have to deal with unwelcome attitude s from people within our circle? as well as random strangers outside?
Alongside these thoughts are concerns on how serious in the longer term will ithe other partner about the relationship as in ..have they really thought this through ?
But then when all these questions - are up there milling about in above their heads.
There is only answer -
The answer begins and ends with the couple in question.
It's centres around 'A leap of faith'
There's is absolutely no question about this.
Neither can the descion to trust in the love for each other - be side stepped or gotten around
Because its the couple which arrives at the conclusion, that living without each other in their day to day lives - is no longer an option.
Who step out of only existing within a grey- non vibable life .
instead choosing to be together, in the light of happiness & peace.
To even consider living any other way is an hypocrisy - love & hypocrisy are incompatible words .
If one or both of the couple feel for real or imaginary reasons , mostly concerning other peoples views or reactions -
That they can't ( yet) live in the light of their love for each other.
Then they need to acknowledge the gift they have experienced and keep moving. Love is something, while desired may not ..yet be an experience they are truly capable of appreciating.
And while in this instance I am speaking of relationship s where there is a significant age gap. This could also apply to other realationship configurations
True love once found exists to be shared & experienced 鉂わ笍 馃挄鉂わ笍
Anything less is an affront to love it's self & simply won't do .
History proves many couples who truly love each ..just go for , they take that leap of faith .
And get on with living happy lives .
