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question of love.

IS it possible to truly Love 2 people at the same time ??
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
I think so. They can each fulfill you in different ways that we need to keep our minds and spirits alive.
@Keepitsimple People do change and grow together too. I think people often just let a relationship die, instead of learning what the problem is and how to fix it. It requires work sometimes when the love is still there. I myself give my romantic heart to only one person. I want them to have all of it. Expecting someone else to "satisfy ALL my needs" is dangerous. That is a huge responsibility for someone and takes us down the road to the end of the relationship ...
Keepitsimple · 51-55, F
@fernie2 sometimes the growth is too big. Interests change and goals. I’m not willing to lower my goal or do something I don’t like that will make me even more unhappy.
KyleRenn · 31-35, M
@Keepitsimple Well put. 😊
Yes

Different people bring different things to our lives.
One person cannot be the be all and end all for everything we need and want
KyleRenn · 31-35, M
@coven I wish you the very best! Hope it works.
coven · M
@KyleRenn Thank you.. Love life is so complex
KyleRenn · 31-35, M
@coven It truly is. I genuinely hope you arrive at an iteration of yours that you find truly fulfilling. ✨
Synyster · 51-55, M
Yes, but there's different types of love.
SW-User
@Synyster Truth! Many different levels!
Synyster · 51-55, M
@SW-User
Agree my friend.
🤗
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@Synyster 🤗
meggie · F
No. I think you can love someone and be attracted to another
coven · M
@meggie good reasoning
Lacemaker · 41-45, F
Not with the same intensity, no.
coven · M
@Lacemaker very interesting
SW-User
@Lacemaker Agreed.
SW-User
Sure, just as when you are a kid, you can love both mom and dad at the same time. They're different people, so you probably love them differently. It's the same with romance. It's possible to care about 2 men at once, but in different ways.
Mellownai · 41-45, F
I believe for some it is.
Dolimyte · 41-45, M
Yes it is. Is that where you are?
coven · M
@Dolimyte sort of
@SW-User Honest, mature, brave and healthy communication is like oxygen in a relationship. Nothing real is going on without it. bad communication in a relationship becomes a cancer that eats away at it.
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@fernie2 Exactly.
SolGryn · 31-35, M
I used to not think so. My mind has changed
coven · M
@SolGryn oh right
SolGryn · 31-35, M
@coven I hope you find an answer to your situation that is helpful
coven · M
@SolGryn haha, very perceptive of you..lol
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
Yes, but probably in different ways.
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@coven You’re welcome. Good luck!
coven · M
ChampagneOnIce · 51-55, F
@coven De rien
I don't know if we have room for two but we do love people in different ways so in that regard I think it's possible.
gdon39 · 41-45, M
I think so, however I know that one will become your favorite. My experience anyway
coven · M
@gdon39 good answer
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
Not equally
coven · M
@GJOFJ3 yes, possibly true
you mean like using the middle stall at a highway service station and finding a glory hole on either side of you
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
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According to religious people, sure
SW-User
@coven They love their god, and their partner. Not sure how yous didn't understand that as a concept?
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coven · M
@SW-User Oh right, Sorry I meant to mention romantic love
LadyJ · F
No i don't think you can
gdon39 · 41-45, M
@coven you really need to start with open, transparent communication. We did it for nearly 4 years
coven · M
@gdon39 beautiful
gdon39 · 41-45, M
@coven it does take effort, it’s called a Thruple relationship.
One
@coven why did you stop at 2? I think if someone has an interest in 2, why not 3,4, 5?
coven · M
@Thedoorislocked yes, for sex , but to love , only 2
@coven 🤔 🧐
ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
Yes. There are many different kinds of love...levels of love.
coven · M
@ShadowWorker Can it involve more than one person ?
ShadowWorker · 61-69, F
@coven are you referring to a romantic love? If so.. sure enough.. because both can serve a special need.,want within you. Which is greater? That depends on you.
Sirmunchabunch · 26-30, M
It can happen but nothing good comes out of it
coven · M
@Sirmunchabunch even true love ?
Sirmunchabunch · 26-30, M
@coven yes It can cause unnecessary pain and drama.
Yep but real Eros love should captivate your whole heart.
What kind of love are you talking about?
coven · M
@fernie2 romantic
jackson55 · M
Mormons have 2/3 wives. So who knows?
coven · M
@jackson55 not sure that's true love ???
4meAndyou · F
@jackson55 Those are fundamentalist outlaw Mormons. They are not allowed to live openly or legally in the state of Utah and maintain those practices. The mainstream church frowns upon it, because they believe in obeying the law to the letter, and they don't want trouble. They've had enough.

I had an Aunt and Uncle who were Mormon, and I still have cousins who are Mormons, so I know quite a bit about it.
Only one can hold your heart. Uno 1 ONE!
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
Is the Pope a white male of European descent?
GJOFJ3 · 61-69, M
@Kumbayakid you believe All Argentines are of European descent?
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
@GJOFJ3 no, just the ones who clearly look European and have European names, like The Pope
Kumbayakid · 61-69, M
“Jorge Mario Bergoglio was born on 17 December 1936[9] in Flores,[10] a neighborhood of Buenos Aires.[9] He was the eldest[11] of five children of Mario José Bergoglio (1908–1959) and Regina María Sívori (1911–1981). Mario Bergoglio was an Italian immigrant accountant[12] born in Portacomaro (Province of Asti) in Italy's Piedmont region. “
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coven · M
@SW-User Can you qualify that ?
SW-User
@coven I have before
Mergirl123 · 26-30, F
Nope! Y? ..... because Z
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
Many people can do that, I mean, you don't need two hearts to love two people at the same time.
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Of course! There are many types of love and I think you can love two at the same time.
mainvane · 61-69, M
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
Yes you can but that makes things complicated
coven · M
@iamonfire696 I love a woman but I also love another.. I think
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
@coven it happens
@coven How is love complicated? WE are complicated...love is just love...pure until we screw it up or don't really know what it is
empanadas · 31-35, M
The English word for love has many meaning. So yes
coven · M
@empanadas I ws thinking of romantic love
empanadas · 31-35, M
@coven yes that too
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