My boyfriend says he admires other women's beauty. This makes me feel hurt. Is it wrong to feel hurt??

And woman are emotional creatures. That's why they cheat. That's an excuse. If a man don't like looking at his woman he should leave.
'@OogieBoogie

@Spoiledbrat women cheat!?

Errr.. Not all women

It's not an excuse... It's a studied, catalogued and recognksed trait of the male of the species.

Hence porn.

But if you wanna confine your guy... Go for it.

Watch him shut down, shut up and stop telling you stuff.🤷‍♀️

I've been married for 30 years so I don't need your advice. @OogieBoogie Woman cheat because they are emotional beings and feel ignored at home.

@Spoiledbrat SOME women cheat.

I never did.

And I was married for 20 till he fucked another.

And I don't. Care for your tone.... It was just a perspective that has scientific study done behind it.

If you wanna believe adultery is excusable... Then that is. your problem, but mine.

Sorry to have offered a perspective on a touchy subject.

Go let your anger off on somebody else.
I dont t need your personal angst redirected at me.

Woman are emotional beings. That's also scientifically proven. Should they be able to have emotional affairs? @OogieBoogie And just because men are visual beings doesn't mean they get to salivate over woman other than their spouse.

@Spoiledbrat women should be. Able to have emotional affairs baciase guys oggle a girl walking by?!?!

Are you freaking kidding!

One takes commitment, the other is momentary.

Wow... Justify it all you want... But that's wrong in my book.

A relationship IS emotional not visual.

Holy shit.

One is emotional the other is visual so yes. @OogieBoogie

A woman knows when she has her man's attention. If she has it and he looks at porn sometimes she probably won't trip. But if she doesn't there's a problem. @OogieBoogie

Humans are visual in general so marriages are visual too. @OogieBoogie

@Spoiledbrat okay... Justify it how you want.... I don't understand the multitude of dynamics at work here.

And I'm sure its way. More complex than what we are taking about.

I feel for you, I really do.

Being emotially starved is.... Fuck... It's one of the worst forms of punishment.

So I can't condemn you for seeking it elsewhere.

I think... Our perspectives are a little different.

But I understand the Emotional neglect.

I'm fact... New studies are showing that neglect is worse than abuse. At least abuse acknowledges a person.
Neglect denies your existence

It's the cruelest thing to do some one. 😔