My boyfriend says he admires other women's beauty. This makes me feel hurt. Is it wrong to feel hurt??

@Adstar i don't admire a really good looking guy. I don't care

@basicgirl12 Ummm I don't believe you..

@Adstar that's really interesting.

@Adstar we are wired differently (in general)

We are emotional.
That means the most average guy can become the man of our dreams because of his heart, his kindness, his attention.

We aren't visual like men.

Don't guage us by your standards, we have our own.

@OogieBoogie I have seen woman ogling cute guys.. Time and Time and Time again.. Don't try and tell me woman have no attraction towards men physically.. I am not a moron..

@Adstar I said 'generally'

Thankyou for putting us. All in the category of what you saw.

And from my perspective as an artist, I've stared at men and women alike, irrespective of age.. To try and memorise their features and characteristics of beauty.

Claiming it is only beauty that enthrals us is highly expective of a man's perspective.

If that is what you wish to believe, rather than a commment from an actual woman... The go ahead.

I'm sure you know best what goes thru oud minds.

@OogieBoogie
I don't even believe you when you said Generally..

The only woman who are never attracted to men physically are Lesbians..

So again i do not believe you..

And i am starting to feel insulted by you thinking you can fool me with your BS..

@Adstar see you can say that most women find other men attractive even when in a relationship. That's fine.

But you cannot say all women. I'm a woman and I do not admire male beauty, I do not find myself attracted to other men when I'm committed to the man I'm with.

@Adstar and I'm insulted that you make assumptions about women from your male perspective.

And the comment you make about lesvians is insulting


I don't give a shit what you believe... And nothing I say. Will change it becuase of your ego.

Typical male... Challenged and straight into denial.

Heaven forbid a female tell you how a female thinks cos you know Better😂

Good luck widat 😜

@basicgirl12 exactly!

The man I loved was plain... Not visually attractive... But to me... He was everything.
The sexiest man in the world.

It didn't stop me seeing visual surface beauty in others... But no one was as deeply beautiful as him

@OogieBoogie
There you go.. My point verified..

Oh and i never said woman are in love with men because they find them physically attractive.. The same goes for men who do not love woman simply because they are physically attractive..

Physical attraction and Love are two very different things..

@Adstar yes, I agree.

Phjsical beauty is a rare anomlly.
Women and men both look.

But women Do not put the importance on physical beauty that men do.

So don't judge us by your standards.