My boyfriend says he admires other women's beauty. This makes me feel hurt. Is it wrong to feel hurt??

@DDonde no, i don't care about other men..
I have eyes only for my man

@basicgirl12 Speak honestly please
Even if you're loyal to your man, is there anyone that you've ever felt besides your man attractive? Surely this is the case?

@DDonde I have no reason to be dishonest. I don't care about other men, don't admire their beauty either.

@basicgirl12 you can love your boyfriend and still be able to enjoy some eye candy

@Jenny1234 by that logic i can still love my boyfriend and have sex with someone else

@basicgirl12 that’s not what I said.

Eye candy is looking at a guy but not acting on anything. Just look.

@basicgirl12 no, I'm talking about finding other people attractive not fucking other people. There's a difference

@basicgirl12 it’s really not healthy to be so absorbed in one person

@Jenny1234 if you can find someone else attractive and still love your partner
You can also sleep with someone else and still love your partner.

You either view sex and love as separate or as mutually inclusive. But one must decide which one.

@basicgirl12 i don't agree
You can see someone else attractive and Love a person, but sleeping with another person is too far

@DDonde who draws the line and where.

@basicgirl12 I do. I draw it there

@basicgirl12 I think your viewpoint is crazy

@Jenny1234 crazy cause it's rooted in hard logic that you can neither understand nor stomach.

@basicgirl12 There's no logic here

@basicgirl12 you’re too young to have figured anything out yet. Let’s have this discussion again in 15 years when you’ve gained more relationship experience.