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Have you ever met someone in your life that's so amazing that you're like "how the f*** am I not supposed to fall in love with you??"

馃槫
Yulianna22-25, F
... only me.

which is, i suppose, both sad and embarrassing...
TheGoodGuyM
@Yulianna Aha! So you [i]do[/i] want me to fall in love with you? 馃馃槻
Yulianna22-25, F
@TheGoodGuy no, you should understand that i am less than indifferent on that matter.
TheGoodGuyM
@Yulianna Less than indifferent is not a no. Which means I'm in!!
馃挭馃徑馃槑
Yup. My girlfriend. And I am in love with her. You鈥檙e question makes me think of this song, though.

[youtube=https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=24u3NoPvgMw&vidve=5727&autoplay=1]
Yulianna22-25, F
@DarkHeaven 馃鉂ゐ煠
@Yulianna 馃馃枻
TheGoodGuyM
@DarkHeaven I like his voice and the melody 馃槉
Ladystarlight2551-55, F
Yes, absolutely I have. I wouldn't trade the experience for anything.
TheGoodGuyM
@Ladystarlight25 What happened?
SledgeHammer46-50, M
Ah damn...

What is it that should be done when somebody falls for you like that.?

I mean... what do you say to them that wont sound like you dont care about them the same way and where they wont feel like you've been leading them on.?

Can this have an effect on the friendship?

It's a very uncomfortable place to be.

Do you back off?
Do you Change ?

What's the proper Etiquette for this?
TheGoodGuyM
@SledgeHammer
[quote]What is it that should be done when somebody falls for you like that.?[/quote]
Be happy for a start. Be honoured. What you should do depends on whether or not you see a future with them.

[quote]I mean... what do you say to them that wont sound like you dont care about them the same way and where they wont feel like you've been leading them on.?[/quote]
If you don't want to be with them you thank them and be as honest as you can with them without hurting their feelings. You can tell them how much you care about them but that you don't see them in that way. You might even love them but in a different way, friendship way.

[quote]Can this have an effect on the friendship?[/quote]
Absolutely. But nothing the friendship can't overcome if you care about each other enough.

[quote]Do you back off? Do you change?[/quote]
Maybe be a bit more aware of the things you say and do so as not to give off the wrong signals.

[quote]What's the proper Etiquette for this?[/quote]
every situation is different so it's hard to say without knowing the feelings of each person for the other within the situation.
FairydustF
Yes 馃挴 but then they let you down, they aren鈥檛 as amazing as you think 馃馃槒
TheGoodGuyM
@Fairydust Not always 馃憖馃榿 Some are just that amazing though 馃ゴ
KuroNeko41-45, F
Yeah and there is nothing wrong with loving someone, just mind your expectations.
TheGoodGuyM
@KuroNeko How so?
KuroNeko41-45, F
@TheGoodGuy By sending out love for people and not expecting that they should feel the same.
TheGoodGuyM
@KuroNeko Ah I see what you mean... It can be hard though.
FoolishLuna56-60, F
I married him馃槏馃槏馃槏
TheGoodGuyM
@FoolishLuna Nice!! Congratulations 馃馃
Did you meet him in SW? 馃憖
FoolishLuna56-60, F
@TheGoodGuy no Tinder lol
TheGoodGuyM
@FoolishLuna Crikey! Lol
Konicha60522-25, F
lol ya, sometimes. mainly online lol
TheGoodGuyM
@Konicha605 That's understandable 馃榿 Text talk hits different
SW-User
@SW-User Yeeeee
SW-User
@SW-User How I felt after a couple months of knowing you. 馃憖
SW-User
@SW-User 馃ズ鈾ワ笍 Oh my
SW-User
@SW-User Oh my my. 馃ズ馃А
adorbz26-30, F
absolutely 馃槍馃挄
TheGoodGuyM
@adorbz Give me the deetz 馃憖
SW-User
TheGoodGuyM
@SW-User What happened?
Yes, tonight and I'm really not supposed to fall in love.
TheGoodGuyM
@thewindupbirdchronicles Here?? Why not?
@TheGoodGuy Some relationships are not supposed to be talked about ;-)
TheGoodGuyM
@thewindupbirdchronicles Well except now you have to tell me 馃憖
JustNik51-55, F
LOL I didn鈥檛 even tend to jump that far when I was younger! Just enjoy the amazing and hope I get to know more. 馃槉
TheGoodGuyM
@JustNik Maybe you just haven't met someone who's that amazing yet 馃檭
RubySoo56-60, F
Yeah.....oh yeah......馃様
TheGoodGuyM
@RubySoo Aw. What stopped the two of you from getting together?
RubySoo56-60, F
@TheGoodGuy im married!! It wasnt a romance, just one of those people that people want to be around.
I miss him still.
TheGoodGuyM
@RubySoo I understand 馃
FaeLuna31-35, F
Oh yeah, definitely.
TheGoodGuyM
@FaeLuna Sooooo what happened?? 馃憖
FaeLuna31-35, F
@TheGoodGuy We got together, and it's been working out pretty great!
TheGoodGuyM
@FaeLuna sounds lovely!! Congrats 馃槉鉂わ笍
SW-User
Yes indeed
TheGoodGuyM
@SW-User how do you deal?
SW-User
@TheGoodGuy I sometimes just assume they鈥檒l diss me like most others
TheGoodGuyM
@SW-User Sorry buddy. Maybe not tho! 馃槂
SW-User
TheGoodGuyM
@SW-User What was the outcome?
SW-User
@TheGoodGuy a complex one.
SW-User
TheGoodGuyM
@SW-User How'd it all work out?
iamonfire69641-45, F
TheGoodGuyM
Why do you think that is?
SW-User
SW-User
@Yulianna that guy? He's a dick
Yulianna22-25, F
@SW-User 馃 i'm sure there's lungs, kidneys, whatever's left of his liver...
TheGoodGuyM
@SW-User Why not?

 
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