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Why do some people LOVE being alone ?

Short answer:
-because its better than peopling.

Long answer: Because they suffering exhaustion on so many levels - mental, emotional, psychological, financial, and physical...they are run dry.
The cup is empty
Exhaustion so deep its like 'soul fatigue'.

Being alone means comfort, wholeness, a sense of contol over what stimulus you get.
- Peace -

People ask "dont you get bored?"

No. Never. And even if we did ..... we'd translate it into a sense of tranquility.


Once youve been wrung out by someone, lived on high alert that even sleep is invaded, for so long youve almost forgotten who you are ...there is no such thing as boredom or loneliness anyore .

Both are welcome relief.
Both are safe

Its a comparative thing - its better than fear, angst, anger or saddness.

"Boredom and loneliness" become states that free one up for space in your head, quiet reflection, tranquil enjoyment, peacefullness.

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scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Absolutely nothing wrong in it.


Being alone allows freedom of not having to think twice , less stressful , less emotional decisions your way. It gives you control over your time, energy , thoughts and feelings.
@scorpiolovedeep it does.
And i get to rediscover 'me' again: my wants, needs, likes, preferences and values ... independence.

Which i think is important.


If im ever to get close with any other person again, i think itd be better to do it as a more balanced person - than someone who needs someone to complete them, or fill a gaping hole dependence.

Be the master of my own happiness, rather than expect someone else to take on that responsibility.
scorpiolovedeep · 51-55, M
Well said. Agree.
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