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I Love to Write

Hello everyone. I really want to be a writer. I've been writing for other people and they liked what I wrote. But I don't see myself as a good writer. How do you build your confidence as a writer?
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Keep writing!!! Finish projects. Don't have a lot of half finished projects sitting around indefinitely.

Give yourself permission to write badly; you can always edit it later. Finished is better than perfect.

Your writing will automatically improve as you write more. To show yourself that this is true, compare what you are writing to what you wrote a year or two ago.

Don't be a slave of your moods. Learn to write on a schedule to complete projects. "Inspiration" is overrated and will happen a lot more often if you develop discipline.

When you work on a project, during a scheduled writing session, quit while you are ahead instead of writing until you burn out. Make notes for your next session instead of writing until you cannot continue. That way, you will feel eager to begin again.

Read Stephen King's book On Writing. And use the famous book The Elements of Style by Strunk & White.

Remember that the key difference between a professional and an amateur is that amateurs write to "express my feelings," while professionals focus on the reader's feelings and perceptions. The therapeutic effect on one's feelings is an automatic byproduct to a professional writer, something they enjoy but not something they focus on.

Seminars, classes, lessons, groups, writing circles etc. are not necessary. However, if you honestly feel helped or supported or less lonely doing these things, I won't argue with you; do what helps you. Just know they are not, strictly speaking, a necessity for every writer.

I remember how nervous I felt when I walked into my first creative writing class. That's because I was the teacher.
suncey · 41-45, F
Thank you so much for the helpful tips!
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
@suncey: Message me if you need any support or help. I've been writing most of my life and now that I've hit old age, I take comfort and satisfaction in passing along my skills.
MaryJanine · 61-69, F
As I have said to others ( and firmly believe) a story or article is the writer's "brainchild" and you may like it, but others may not, and vice versa.

You say others "like what you write". You are HALFWAY THERE! A writer, be he or she, good or bad, is the worst judge of what they produce. That includes me. I have let others see my writing, and thy say I am smart and talented. This feels good, but I know I must stay with my writing and always strive to improve. This is what you need to do.

Keep writing. A little every day, even if only a sentence or paragraph. Your confidence will come as you "hone" your skills and write - maybe even have printed. I have written several letters to the editor of my local newspaper, and had two or three articles printed. Continuing to write will bring you the confidence you seek. Confidence cannot be taught - it has to be your effort in what you write.
Martty · 46-50, M
keep going, keep writing. Read a lot and by keeping writing you will develop
suncey · 41-45, F
@Fabian: Yeah there is. I joined it four years ago but I got caught by my job. I stopped meeting the writers. I want to connect with them but I just hate myself for being so shy.
Martty · 46-50, M
don't worry about that, just make the step
suncey · 41-45, F
@Fabian: Thank you for the encouragement. One step at a time.

 
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