I Like to Write About How I Feel

In my opinion... If there is love there is going to be hurt. Let him feel his feelings. He needs to process the loss of you and that will not be painless for either of you. I am of course not advocating for you to suffer any kind of abuse. Your post the other day said you were a social worker so I assume you can gage what is healthy and what is not. It is simply a part of the process and you cannot make him think what you want so don't spend another minute focusing on it. You just focus on keeping yourself as mentally healthy as you can and it will pass.

You are strong, you will be fine in time.

Yeah. Venting sounds a lot healthier...

Then he is the lesser. He feels his hurt justifies hurting you. And if you honestly didn't set out to hurt him. (Don't know what happened) he is the person that saw you as bad. Perhaps he has been looking for that bad thing to blame you with?

I've never denied that I hurt him, but he is set to prove it was on purpose. reading his own meaning into everything I say and do, even after I told him it was over.

I find it funny how a few hours ago I got a completely different advice

We all make mistakes and have to deal with the consequences.

You don't have to shut up. You have a voice and have thoughts share those express them.

Thanks Verbose. I'm trying

We all need to vent! Hits what happens when we hurt. And sometimes when we do vent, we see that we might have hurt others.

We have all made mistakes that doesn't mean we're not allowed to vent when we're angry/hurt/upset ... This is definitely the forum so vent away ...

Sometimes that is all we can do...accept our mistakes to just ourself and move forward.

Vent away Malia that's what this place is for. Hope you're ok😘

Vent, this is the place for it and it's better to get it out of your head than to keep it in Malia.