Is it bad that rn I don’t want to be a girl?

like I right this minute I don’t feel comfortable in my own body I’m born female and mainly go by she her and don’t mind they them but don’t want to be called he him or any male/ masculine pronouns. And usually it’s just like I don’t want to dress up in like a more feminine today and prefer to dress what some people consider more masculine but today it feels like I’m not in the right body and with my lover who is straight I don’t know what to do i feel very stressed and everything I can do to cover/hide my 🍒except a hot oversized hoodie hurts to do.. what do I do? Can someone help me..?

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HootyTheNightOwl

Can't you just be you???

That's generally how I cope with having no gender...

Ur1sub · 18-21

@HootyTheNightOwl idk how to deal with this stuff alone

HootyTheNightOwl

@Ur1sub You can deal with it... chances are that this isn't the first time that it's happened in your life, either.

Ur1sub · 18-21

@HootyTheNightOwl it is pretty much though bc the only thing similar is when I realized i didn’t care if someone called me they or them and I just don’t want to be called male pronouns

HootyTheNightOwl

@Ur1sub You can keep the pronouns that you were assigned at birth... there's no law saying that all non binary people have to change pronouns or do xyz thing.

It's not always black and white, some are in other places on the spectrum. I have no desire to change my body either - but I know that I am not female.