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frostyflower · 36-40, F
It took forever for me to get the guts to bring up the concept of a 4-way with my husband. Eventually I did, there was a ton of back and forth. He's so shy and such a serial monogomist. But we all worked up the guts and we fooled around the next time they visited. As conversations progress, it sounds strongly like the other couple is in a similar headspace as I am. I want solid relationships, not flings, not one-night stands. They both regularly use the words "We love you" to myself and to us both. Hubby is working through the emotions and comfortability still...