EditaPaperCom · 41-45, M
Self-harm is a serious issue that should not be taken lightly. It is a coping mechanism that some people use to cope with overwhelming emotions, such as sadness, anxiety, or anger. While it may provide temporary relief, it is not a healthy or sustainable way to manage difficult feelings.
Self-harm can take many forms, such as cutting, burning, or hitting oneself. It can also include behaviors like self-starvation or excessive exercise. These behaviors can be dangerous and can lead to serious physical harm or even death.
Self-harm is often a sign that someone is struggling with deeper issues, such as depression, anxiety, trauma, or a history of abuse. It is important for individuals who engage in self-harm to seek professional help from a mental health professional, such as a therapist or counselor.
There are many different treatment options available for individuals who engage in self-harm. These may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both. Therapy can help individuals learn healthy coping mechanisms and address the underlying issues that contribute to self-harm. Medication may also be helpful in managing difficult emotions and can be prescribed by a healthcare provider.
It is important for individuals who engage in self-harm to have a support system in place. This can include family and friends, as well as support groups or online communities. It is also important for loved ones to be understanding and non-judgmental when someone confides in them about their self-harm behaviors.
In summary, self-harm is a serious issue that requires professional help and support. It is not a healthy or sustainable way to cope with difficult emotions, and it can be dangerous. If you or someone you know is engaging in self-harm, it is important to seek help as soon as possible.
Self-harm can take many forms, such as cutting, burning, or hitting oneself. It can also include behaviors like self-starvation or excessive exercise. These behaviors can be dangerous and can lead to serious physical harm or even death.
Self-harm is often a sign that someone is struggling with deeper issues, such as depression, anxiety, trauma, or a history of abuse. It is important for individuals who engage in self-harm to seek professional help from a mental health professional, such as a therapist or counselor.
There are many different treatment options available for individuals who engage in self-harm. These may include therapy, medication, or a combination of both. Therapy can help individuals learn healthy coping mechanisms and address the underlying issues that contribute to self-harm. Medication may also be helpful in managing difficult emotions and can be prescribed by a healthcare provider.
It is important for individuals who engage in self-harm to have a support system in place. This can include family and friends, as well as support groups or online communities. It is also important for loved ones to be understanding and non-judgmental when someone confides in them about their self-harm behaviors.
In summary, self-harm is a serious issue that requires professional help and support. It is not a healthy or sustainable way to cope with difficult emotions, and it can be dangerous. If you or someone you know is engaging in self-harm, it is important to seek help as soon as possible.
Justme22 · M
You know what you can and cannot handle and what you need to get you through each day.
I can speak from experience things we think we keep hidden from family often find their way into the light. Children see and feel more than we realize at the time, no matter what the age.
I can speak from experience things we think we keep hidden from family often find their way into the light. Children see and feel more than we realize at the time, no matter what the age.
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WaryWitchWandering · 36-40, F
@Justme22 my kids absolutely pick up on when I’m off at all…. They are quite young.
@BrokenAbyss when/if I don’t eat properly, my daughter kinda calls me out on it. She will ask “well why aren’t YOU eating?” At lunch time (I always eat at dinner with whole family).
My son is more at an age that he will act out if he feels I’m not on my game or something is off. I don’t know how to explain it, but it’s like he will demand more attention than normal (because he knows some of my attention is directed inward at myself when usually it’s focused on him and his sister).
I do understand where you’re coming from in my own odd way. I hope you can find some sort of peace soon… or even a jolt of inspiration (on what you want to do next for yourself and your son). Your son is lucky to have you ❤️
@BrokenAbyss when/if I don’t eat properly, my daughter kinda calls me out on it. She will ask “well why aren’t YOU eating?” At lunch time (I always eat at dinner with whole family).
My son is more at an age that he will act out if he feels I’m not on my game or something is off. I don’t know how to explain it, but it’s like he will demand more attention than normal (because he knows some of my attention is directed inward at myself when usually it’s focused on him and his sister).
I do understand where you’re coming from in my own odd way. I hope you can find some sort of peace soon… or even a jolt of inspiration (on what you want to do next for yourself and your son). Your son is lucky to have you ❤️
@WaryWitchWandering I know exactly what you mean about him wanting more attention when you’re focused inward. Then you feel guilty for feeling at all. And that’s why all my energy ends up focused on lil dude. He’s got nowhere and no one else to look at. I’m damn tired. And I don’t have time for the things I want to do rn. It’ll change of course, doing the hard work now 😊
But this is all that’s ever helped. And I’m kinda pro at it 😆 I know my limits and when I’m able to self harm I have a release. I have a focus. It’s all there is rn.
I guess it’s sick but self harm is kinda my only self care. It puts me back in my body. That’s the best I can realistically get for now.
I’m sorry you feel this pain too. I somehow feel like our kids will have an advantage later though. Restore a little empathy that has been lost to greed over the generations.
It’s just gotta be okay to be sad. I don’t know anyone that isn’t holding in a bit to a lot of sadness.
It’s hard seeing your babies hurt but there are things I fear much more than pain. Feeling nothing, making things meaningless… I’ve dabbled and it’s just repressed sadness. Thank you for being you and raising sweet humans. I hope one day our paths cross
But this is all that’s ever helped. And I’m kinda pro at it 😆 I know my limits and when I’m able to self harm I have a release. I have a focus. It’s all there is rn.
I guess it’s sick but self harm is kinda my only self care. It puts me back in my body. That’s the best I can realistically get for now.
I’m sorry you feel this pain too. I somehow feel like our kids will have an advantage later though. Restore a little empathy that has been lost to greed over the generations.
It’s just gotta be okay to be sad. I don’t know anyone that isn’t holding in a bit to a lot of sadness.
It’s hard seeing your babies hurt but there are things I fear much more than pain. Feeling nothing, making things meaningless… I’ve dabbled and it’s just repressed sadness. Thank you for being you and raising sweet humans. I hope one day our paths cross
rrraksamam · 31-35, M
Please don't hurt yourself
honeybee111 · T
Sorry to hear your hurting so bad
iamonfire696 · 41-45, F
I understand how you feel but I still hate that you have to hurt yourself to feel in control.
Anorexia is harmful, cutting is also harmful. I can understand wanting to feel in control though 💖.
Anorexia is harmful, cutting is also harmful. I can understand wanting to feel in control though 💖.