i don't like people who are emotional , who can't control their emotions

i accept that people have emotions, especially in difficult times, but to me it's all about keeping them in check....i don't like people who -when conveying something that's happened to them start crying...screaming, getting hysterical, being a windbag....and just behaving ridiculously...i respect people who can hold their nerve and remain calm & composed under pressure, or do their best to stay calm in any situation, that's what i respect...not some emotional windbag.

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HisHeelsHerHeart · 36-40, CVIP

Then you dont like women

Baybreeze · 41-45, F

@HisHeelsHerHeart I'm a woman and rarely ever show crying, or real vulnerability ; I am typically very shy and quiet. I do think it's helpful once in a great while however TO show that side of ourselves. It's hard for me, but I think it can connect people even more (not Hysterics, but just if someone did cry in public and didn't immediately try to hide it).