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What do you think about people who RSVP that they are coming to a party weeks in advance

And then text you one hour before saying “Oh hey I meant to tell you before but just didn’t get to it. We’re not coming. We actually had a conflict and couldn’t attend, sorry for the late text”.

Or who simply change their RSVP to not coming 1 hour before with no reason.

Or who say “Oh hey I’m busy cleaning and can’t come, sorry” one hour before.

Are these people irresponsible? Should I let them know it?
DefNotTravelguy
41-45, M
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Aysel · F
Possible reasons: 1: They are unable to attend due to an unforeseen circumstance.

2: They realised they no longer enjoyed your company, so they bailed out.
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Aysel · F
@DefNotTravelguy Okay.
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DefNotTravelguy · 41-45, M
@Aysel Ah yes. Now I can say it….

Bye Felicia.
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Aysel · F
@DefNotTravelguy Fabulous.
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OlderSometimesWiser · F
They’re rude. I just wouldn’t invite them again.
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Lilymoon · F
The nature of the beast. This is why I don't host parties haha
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Shybutwilling2bfriends · 61-69
They are being very rude
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HannahSky · F
It's rude
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bijouxbroussard · F
Yes, they are. Depending on how close they are to you, you can remind them how cancelling at the last minute inconveniences a host, or you can just quietly remove them from future guest lists.
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V00doo
Rudeness
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MethDozer · M
I don't see anything wrong about. Shit happens, moods change, is what it is.

To be honest weeks advance notice should by default be treated as nothing more than a strong maybe. How the hell is someone going to know how they are feeling or wanting to do two weeks advance notice? I don't see how it is really any inconvenience as a host. I host parties, whoever shows up, shows up. It's fine.
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NativePortlander1970 ·
Sometimes shit happens, like one of the kids getting sick.
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DefNotTravelguy · 41-45, M
@NativePortlander1970 None of these things are kids getting sick
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NativePortlander1970 ·
@DefNotTravelguy If they told you the truth would you believe them? Sometimes people have legit reasons to cancel but think they won't be believed.
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NativePortlander1970 ·
Good plausibilities
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