To those who are single…(well, anyone can answer, really)

What are some weird or strange habits you’ve picked up since you became single?
Those little idiosyncrasies which you know you might have to ‘UN’learn if and when you have a partner again…?

Me….I have taken to sleeping across my bed, rather than lengthwise as I did when my bed was shared. I don’t know why it’s so comfortable for me this way..?…but I suppose I will have to learn to share the bed again, one day 🤦‍♀️

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Theyitis · 36-40, M

I’ve always been single, never been in a relationship before, and I worry about this type of thing a lot. A few of my idiosyncrasies I imagine I would have to unlearn if I ever find a partner: I sometimes don’t shower on the weekends, I sleep on a sofa in the basement instead of in my bed, I sigh or moan or say stuff when using the toilet, I have a really messy room and keep lots of trash lying around, I watch plenty of porn. Well, those are the ones on the top of my mind today.

ImpeccablyImperfect · 56-60, F

@Theyitis With all due respect, I would say yes, you probably want to unlearn most of those!!! 😉

Theyitis · 36-40, M

@ImpeccablyImperfect Haha! So far there’s little indication that I’ll ever have to worry about needing to unlearn them. I’ve discovered recently that I think I’m high functioning autistic, and there seems to be a rule written down somewhere that if I’m attracted to a woman that there’s not a snowball’s chance in hell that she’ll be attracted to me.