Why have i not even came close to having a boyfriend?

I'm at least decent looking. Some tell me I'm pretty. I cook good, I'm a good friend to have around. I like adventure. Just seems like guys these days are too manipulative for me. I stick up for myself and that's the end of them. Anyone live in the central U.S that wants to be my REAL boyfriend lol. Seriously. Been single almost my whole life. I'm willing to do long distance because I'm willing to relocate. Just want to finally experience what most have at least experienced once in their life

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SW-User

I’ll probably never have a real girlfriend either.

Deeperminds · 46-50, F

Why is that?

SW-User

@Deeperminds I geuss I’m just not social enough for such a social experiment. I’m the happiest alone miles in the woods by myself by beautiful scenery and some alcohol in my hand. I would love a family a wife and kids, but I’m not the ideal guy for any girl.

Deeperminds · 46-50, F

That's exactly how I am. I enjoy my own company so much I even go on road trips all by myself. I'm a loner and have social anxiety

SW-User

@Deeperminds I feel like having a job as a truck driver, where I spend 4 to 6 months on the road at a time would be perfect. I just don’t realistically see me ever being able to handle a relationship. Not to mention the idea of a girl meeting my family gives me all kinds of anxiety. I’m so different depending on if I’m with friends, coworkers, or family I wouldn’t know how to act.

Deeperminds · 46-50, F

Haha same thing here. I would feel incredibly awkward bringing a guy around my family after all this time. He would have to fit in perfectly and not be some dumb ass that would reflect embarrassment upon me lol. I'm pretty picky