New Start from now

Last night I threw out a lover. Tomorrow I'm going out with a new friend I got chatting to on Bumble. I met her once before and I like her. Next week I'm going out with an old work colleague.

I'm going to go for being up beat and crying in my spare time which hopefully I have little of. I might even get a new job but I'm definitely getting some new hobbies.

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justanothername · 51-55, M

Good luck hope all goes well :)

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@justanothername thank you

justanothername · 51-55, M

@KaiserSolze what do you look for in a partner?

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@justanothername lol well I used to look for all sorts of things and I had alot of rules but this last guy literally broke every one of those rules and I don't know why I was with him for 3 years.

Anyway I think I'm not going to look for anything in particular other than kindness and an easy going nature. But I'm not going to look at all for a while because I need to do some "me stuff" and get back to feeling like myself again so if or when I do meet anyone I'm good within myself again because at the moment I feel like I've been in a washing machine and then in a tumble drier on high heat.

But thank you for asking.

justanothername · 51-55, M

@KaiserSolze There’s nothing wrong with having a few requirements. I had 4 when I met my wife.

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@justanothername what were they?

justanothername · 51-55, M

@KaiserSolze open minded regarding sex.
Intelligence with a sense of wit that is just a bit left of where mine is
and someone who gets my often quirky sense of humor.
Tolerant of me.

KaiserSolze · 46-50, F

@justanothername they're really good. I screen shotted for reference lol

justanothername · 51-55, M

@KaiserSolze no problem. Happy to help.