@Elevatorpitches Like I said to Nell, I don’t equate values or aiming higher to happiness. My values are sound, in my opinion, but it has nothing to do with my happiness. I am not happy. I am grateful, but far from happy, and I consider myself a person of integrity.
@DeluxedEdition I personally found value in my life when I met Jesus. I've never experienced love in such a deep way. I get emotional just thinking about it.
That thing they dropped between the cushions on the sofa. 😑 it’s never as easy as you Hope it to be
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I would have to say what the world says. The world says you should be born, eat, drink, go to school, get a 9-to-5 job, get married, have children, retire, die. There are so many alternatives to this... (apart from the first 3 and the last one!)
@SW-User I completely agree with you on that. I for one only feel the need to marry and have kids when I see a happy looking couple when in fact I'm happier by myself.
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@karysma Well good for you :) I think we're similar. Never let people dictate what you should do. Also, when I have kids, I'm thinking of homeschooling them. The law is that you get an education, not go to school. There is a whole world out there that my kids can learn in.
@NoGamesTolerated So very true. I want to be like Paul who said he knew lack and abundance and was still happy because he had God but not so much the process 😅
@NoGamesTolerated happiness and joy of the soul are not as the world sees happiness… but whatever happens there’s a calm peace that no matter what happens, it will be alright…
Well people seek different things.. I think you will the majority and i am not saying how big that majority is Seek Love..
But then again i might be wrong about this in these times.. Lots of people seem to have given up on love and are chancing material wealth and social status, control / power..
@karysma In these times ( and i believe we are in the end times ) i agree with you.. The love of many has grown cold.. So finding happiness in people is like searching for a diamond in a mountain of rock..
@Elevatorpitches Self validation begins in the mind. The minute you entertain negative thoughts about yourself you entertain every negative word spoken to you. .