What are some things that make you digress your attention from someone even if you really like them ?

When I feel heavy need and expectation from them. It's nothing they're doing wrong per se, I'm very independent.

I've been out of that mode for so long I honestly don't know. I expect its going to take some getting used to once I'm single again.

Other things I like too, such as hobbies and friends. And chores that just need to happen regardless of what I'd rather be doing. And of course sleep.

The need to protect them and myself from the inevitable downfall

My social battery being completely drained

Inner demons screaming louder and making more sense than any logic presented

The slightest shift in their behavior that feels too similar to past relationships that didn’t work out

Awkwardness

Vibes of being closed off
My walls getting in the way

Rudeness

sometime sanity sets in lol but the heart wants what the heart wants lol

Overthinking and negative self talk.

Rudeness and people who don't know how to have a conversation 🥴