I Need to Vent

I live with my boyfriend and his family which is his mom dad and sister they don't cook breakfast and they barely make lunch sometimes his mom is really lazy and his sister I'm too afraid to eat what I want in there because I still don't feel comfortable but I have to wait until dinner time after dinner the mom doesn't save food that she has left she tried to throw away meatloaf that could feed literally 2 people since I had to wash dishes after dinner I bagged that shit up in a ziplock and hid it in my bedroom 😂 They can waste food all they want but when it comes to meatloaf I'm bagging that shit and gonna eat it later😒 So before all of that his mom came into my room talking about oh the kitchen need to be clean before her man gets home I swear 😂 I feel like I'm in the movie get out his mom creeps me out and I feel like a house slave

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firefall · 61-69, M

he changed his mind ?

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall yeah he did it was hard talking my way out of getting kicked out but it worked out and everything is fine 😂He just thought I'd be better off with my parents so I can finish school and a job and that my parents could help me but he already know damn well if I were to go back I'd be homeless again my parents would abuse me again and yada yada yada

firefall · 61-69, M

@BlackAphrodite I'm glad to hear it. I mean, you would be better off somewhere where you can finish school & get a job, but that isn't your parents place and never will be :(

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall ofcourse but either way with my parents I won't be able to do nothing and here all his mom wants from me is to clean and get pregnant by her son

firefall · 61-69, M

@BlackAphrodite yeah, not a huge improvment :(

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall no the way I see it I might get pregnant and I might be able to get through school maybe when me and him get our own place and I might be able to work while pregnant anything necessary to take care of him and the baby his mom is really pushy about getting me pregnant

firefall · 61-69, M

@BlackAphroditeyeah at least there are seeds of progress there, that's true

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall yeah but I don't know 🤷🏾‍♀️ his mom creeps me out and she's real bat shit crazy

firefall · 61-69, M

@BlackAphrodite yeah she does sound pretty deranged. Hopefully not too long til you can get your own place

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall I don't know I'm thinking out getting my schooling started so I can get my check started again which is 800something a month maybe we can get into housing or something where the rent is cheap

firefall · 61-69, M

@BlackAphrodite that sounds good

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall 🤦🏾‍♀️ But I don't think it'll work my boyfriend doesn't get paid enough his boss is his cousin and his cousin tries to pay him little as possible he's not thinking of getting another job and he's not thinking about moving away from his parents

firefall · 61-69, M

@BlackAphrodite oh, that's not so good.

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall no it's not 😂I'm so fucking stressed out you won't believe how stressed out I am I can't even sleep at night because of all the shit I'm growing through

firefall · 61-69, M

@BlackAphrodite I can understand why you would be, it's a hell of a jam to be caught in

BlackAphrodite · 22-25, F

@firefall 😒Definitely and his mom complains 24/7 no wonder his dad is miserable 🤦🏾‍♀️For fuck sake put a sock in it